Perinatal & Postpartum Therapy | Online Counseling

Support that grows with you through every phase of parenthood

Parenthood doesn’t begin in just one moment. It's a series of phases, each with its own questions, and I work with women across all of them. With certification through Postpartum Support International (PSI), much of my practice is built around exactly this: growing with clients as their lives move through different stages.

Many of the women I work with come to me for anxiety, chronic illness, or a grief-filled life transition long before parenthood is on the table, and then stay with me as it becomes part of the picture. Others arrive already in the middle of it. But no matter where you find yourself, you are welcome here.

Deanna Candeloro, licensed professional counselor

The Parenthood Phases I Support

Perinatal work covers more ground than most people expect. I work with women who are:

  • Considering whether parenthood is something they want, including ambivalence about that decision

  • Trying to conceive, including the emotional weight of fertility treatment, unpredictability, or loss

  • Grieving from miscarriage, still-birth, and infant loss

  • Navigating pregnancy, including anxiety, identity shifts, and the pressure to feel a certain way about it

  • Adjusting to postpartum life, including mood and anxiety changes, identity disruption, and relationship shifts

  • Parenting ongoing, including the ways earlier anxiety, grief, or chronic stress can resurface at new stages of a child's life

Through continued work together, we can ease the weight of what it means to be (or become) a parent, whatever that looks like for you right now. But if you need more immediate support before we can meet, please reach out to the Postpartum Support International's HelpLine.

What is perinatal therapy?

Perinatal refers to the period spanning pregnancy through the first year or so postpartum. Perinatal therapy is emotional and mental support specific to that period, though in practice, its emotional reach often starts before conception and continues well past a child's first birthday.

Within that period, some women experience what are known as perinatal mood and anxiety disorders (PMADs), a term used by PSI to describe mood and anxiety changes connected to pregnancy or postpartum. This can include but is not limited to postpartum depression and postpartum anxiety. 

But perinatal therapy isn't only for PMADs, and it isn't only about symptoms. Virtual sessions with me are a safe space to process:

  • identity shifts

  • ambivalence

  • disconnection

  • grief

  • fertility struggles

  • relationship changes

  • body and self-esteem changes

  • disorientation in changing roles

… all alongside whatever else you're carrying. 

Some sessions center directly on mood or anxiety. Others center on making sense of a version of yourself you didn't expect to meet yet.

How I Help Perinatal & Postpartum Women

My approach is built around the idea that you don't have to have "arrived" at a stage cleanly to get support in it. Ambivalence, grief, anxiety, and love can all be present in the same phase, sometimes the same day.

This may look like:

  • Meeting you at whatever phase you're actually in, rather than the one you expected to be in by now

  • Making space for loss when it's part of this journey, including fertility struggles or pregnancy loss

  • Supporting identity shifts that come with pregnancy, postpartum, or parenting, without assuming there's one correct way to feel about them

  • Continuing to work with you as your needs shift from one phase to the next, since this is rarely a one-session topic

  • Client-centered, strengths-based tools drawn from CBT and mindfulness, adapted to whatever phase you're navigating

If you’re in Delaware or Tennessee, we can get started as soon as you’re ready.

Perinatal & Postpartum Therapy FAQ

Additional Resources

Since this phase often benefits from more than one kind of support, here are a few additional resources:

It Takes a Village

Being and becoming a parent was never meant to be figured out in isolation, and neither is anything that comes before or after it. Whatever phase you're standing in right now, ambivalent or certain, waiting or adjusting, grieving or hoping, I'd be glad to grow with you through it.